There are men who are born with a natural ‘player’ instinct. It literally takes a moment for them to know which girl to flirt with out of a hundred of them. That’s how good they are with reading hints. The rest of us, sadly, aren’t that well equipped at catching hints women drop. So, if you’ve been wondering whether that girl is just being friendly or is actually making subtle passes at you, here’s are the signs you need to start reading!
1. She makes direct eye contact with you, and a lot of it. She stares deep into your eyes till you start blushing! Even when you’re talking to someone else in a group, you notice her constantly looking at you.
2. She stalks you on Facebook and definitely doesn’t try to hide it. You get random notifications of her liking your pictures from two years ago on Facebook.
3. She uses plenty of smileys and emoticons while texting you, especially the blush and wink ones and makes sure she’s not sending monosyllabic replies. It is probably her way of letting you know how interested she is in the conversation.
4. She finds everything about you funny and wouldn’t miss a chance to let you know of it. She laughs the loudest on your jokes, even when you know they’re terrible. She’s visibly giggly in your company.
5. She always leans in when talking to you and gets really close. She may be doing it to give you a hint or it may happen unintentionally, but the body language definitely hints towards her interest in you.
6. She tries to find excuses to talk to you. She’s always initiating conversations with you whether it is about how your day went or the latest movie she watched.
7. She plays with her hair when talking to you and fiddles with her hands in an attempt to draw your attention to her beauty.
8. She insists on meeting you. In fact, she’s the one constantly making plans to meet and those ‘plans’ never include anybody other than the two of you.
9. She really looks forward to late night messaging and is definitely flirtier than she is in person. She likes to chat up with you till 3 in the night about the most random things.
10. You know what she looks forward to even more? Drunk conversations. She drunk dials you in the middle of the night after getting drunk and says things she’d definitely regret the next morning. When at parties, she’s always on the lookout for grabbing an ‘alone’ moment with you, especially if you’re drunk.
11. There’s never an end to a conversation with her. She answers every question with a question to keep the conversation going. She’d never end the conversation with a simple ‘bye’, she’s always keep it open ended so it continues the next morning.
12. She’s always trying to pick on you, joke around and embarrass you for things you may have told her in a private conversation the night before.
13. She sends you selfies after getting drunk and fishes for your reaction on it.
14. She brings up sex a lot while talking to you. In fact, conversations with her are filled with perverted jokes and sexual innuendos. There’s always a slight playful sexual undercurrent in every conversation she has with you.
15. She gives you the funniest nicknames and tries to embarrass you by cracking private jokes in front of your friends. Humour is a great means to flirt and she definitely knows how to use it.
16. And here we come to the most important sign. She’s touchy feely around you, she finds excuses to touch you every now and then. And even the ‘accidental’ touches don’t seem so accidental anymore. If she likes to correct your hair or touch your face or playfully hit you or graze her arm against yours ‘by mistake’ a little too often, she might just be trying to drop a hint or two!
Know some more moves girls make when trying to flirt with guys? Comment down below and educate other men who suck at catching hints.